When Sex becomes a chores

After years of marriage, the sex ritual can be boring or just plain routine. After all the tips, tricks, and styles, I end up doing the same stuff.

After a week's abstinence I took my tool for another inconsequential drive . Just another twist and turn, and finally an uhm moment. Yes, another cuddling moment, that's part of my married existence.

What makes sex novel, interesting, charging? How can I make her to dizzying heights through a different route? How do couples around me arouse innovation in this game? Am I alone struggling to find a better way, each time, or is it just a fleeting thought from this fella?

What happened to the sizzling thought I carried in my 20's. How can I connect to those dazzling days, when I went around the town bedding my girl friends?

Casual Meet at the Market

It never occurred to me that I'll chanced to get a bit close to this Marvari lady at Chickpet market. I had gone there to buy cards for my brother's marriage. It was busy Sunday at this place with people of all kinds milling in this wholesale market.

After buying the big stack of400 cards I was heaving both of my bags across the main road. While I stood to cross the road, one auto dashed against one bag sending it down on the dirty road. For a minute I thought the whole card is going for a waste. Luckily nothing happened.

Be Brave

Stand up, be bold, be strong! Strength is life, weakness is death.These lines from the great Hindu monk reviberated in me, giving me some hidden strength I never had before.

How can words influence your mind to act at a higher potential. How long does this stay? does it get carried forward to the next day....

How can I imprint these words to my every day action?

Chill Drive

It takes a 15 min ride to reach home. This time of the year, climate is slowing shifting to a pleasant chill weather. Most often I ride without any jacket. It gives my sleak body a welcome shudder. After a 9 hr haul at office, the prospect of riding to home - to the welcome warm hands of my spouce makes the day complete.

Scratch & Win

Wish life gave such simple options to succeed. Well it don't, u only get such ludicrous slips only at shopping malls or retail out lets.

Taking abt such retail marketing funds, life too has a lot to do with scratch and win. We daily rub our shoulders with folks at work, at Gym or at park but we hardly go beyond scratching their ass no souls. Most often we only get a little out of them or give little of us.

As life gets more thiker, dense, artificial, we cover ourself with a web of intricate thoughts and false visions. Hardly we let other peek into our real self

Delightful Start With a Bang

After a break in the sun lit Goa, I'm full of josh to turn a new leaf in life. So what do I plan to go full steam to make it a reality.

It all starts with planning, planning and planning. I'm a big time procrastinator, from work, to filing a PF form or to give a regular health check-up.

I've a simple plan. To jolt down the things to do for the day and DO IT. This I've attempted couple of times, but as days go by, my writing book is misplaced, and so does my plan.

But this time, I'm planning with iron clad commitment. I'm looking forward to build my sagging confidence too with my ardent desire to change.

I would love suggestions, comments and improvement tips or if you can exchange some notes to improve my drive

Last Sunday

Evening mass at St Partrick church has the usual tinge of sermon, crowd and prayer. In the end, it all looked the same. Priest was shouting, but his voice lacked clarity. I get to wonder if priest get an appraisal of their sermon? Do anyone tell them how boring or how it moved the congregation?

Why do priest disappear after they finish the mass? Why don't they come out & interact with the church goers?

Another question, how do they sexual gratification? without fornication, do they ** ? How many hold on to their vows?