Scratch & Win

Wish life gave such simple options to succeed. Well it don't, u only get such ludicrous slips only at shopping malls or retail out lets.

Taking abt such retail marketing funds, life too has a lot to do with scratch and win. We daily rub our shoulders with folks at work, at Gym or at park but we hardly go beyond scratching their ass no souls. Most often we only get a little out of them or give little of us.

As life gets more thiker, dense, artificial, we cover ourself with a web of intricate thoughts and false visions. Hardly we let other peek into our real self

Delightful Start With a Bang

After a break in the sun lit Goa, I'm full of josh to turn a new leaf in life. So what do I plan to go full steam to make it a reality.

It all starts with planning, planning and planning. I'm a big time procrastinator, from work, to filing a PF form or to give a regular health check-up.

I've a simple plan. To jolt down the things to do for the day and DO IT. This I've attempted couple of times, but as days go by, my writing book is misplaced, and so does my plan.

But this time, I'm planning with iron clad commitment. I'm looking forward to build my sagging confidence too with my ardent desire to change.

I would love suggestions, comments and improvement tips or if you can exchange some notes to improve my drive

Last Sunday

Evening mass at St Partrick church has the usual tinge of sermon, crowd and prayer. In the end, it all looked the same. Priest was shouting, but his voice lacked clarity. I get to wonder if priest get an appraisal of their sermon? Do anyone tell them how boring or how it moved the congregation?

Why do priest disappear after they finish the mass? Why don't they come out & interact with the church goers?

Another question, how do they sexual gratification? without fornication, do they ** ? How many hold on to their vows?

How to Find New Interest In Marriage

Life moves from the fun & fiery filled bachelorhood to the static life of marriage life. Married life brings in an a rhythm, makes you more predictable. It's assured to bring lot of monotony and boredom.

Yesterday, while roaming with my wife at Forum Koramangala Bangalore , my thought dragged me ways to pep my marriage life.

• How can i bring excitement in life?
• How to meet more people in life?
• How to build new friends?
• How to socialize in Bangalore?
• How to pep up sex life?
• How to make weekend more productive?
• How to sustain a good hobby?
• How to engage in outdoor games?
• How to make new friends during weekends?

I wonder how people of my age group spend their weekends? Are they busy looking after their kids, house and thoughts about mortgage/aging? How does a fellow with little disposable income move in the social circles of Bangalore?

Street Fight Club Bangalore

For a small town fellow, the road rage in Bangalore was a shocker. Commuters in B'lore roads show violent behavior in the roads that's disturbing. I've seen numerous fights between car drivers, bike fellas and all these fights were for petty avoidable reasons.

Yesterday on the way to my office, I saw another fight on the road. I just had a glimpse of few guys having fist fight over some issue. It was crude fight and an old man too was getting blows. How can people become so violent over such mistakes while driving?

Can be blame it on the stress levels in Bangalore roads. Is it the selfish attitude of people, I me culture.

Life in Bangalore has changed from the laid back "pensioners" garden to the hectic fast paced life of BPO's and KPO's. Now there's no coming back, it's upto the people to bring bit more humaneness on the roads.

How can you bring a small change:

Honk less while driving - It reduces the heat on the road
Don't rush past - Anyways you have to wait for others at the next signal

Why Are Our Police Corrupt?

All is well as long a we're away from the long arm of LAW. In case we need to step inside the Police Station for any issues, right from Passport verification to any other complaints, we we get to see the greyer side of this department.

Couple of months back I had to vist hoysal to get a passport check for my Mom. These fellas, good at sniffing issues with her address etc made the case complicated. Since I did'nt want to prolong this task, I went for the easy way of pleasing this cop.

Yes, expected it and I gave to his gratification. 500 bucks to inside his khaki done away all the red-tape he was talking.

This makes me wonder what made these law enforcement people become just opposite of what our society wanted.

Few reasons I could find:

Underpaid & overworked

Lack of competency

Bad working conditions
Political interference in work
Low morale & lack of training
Long hours of work

Unorganized working/ Case reporting

Bad administration
Complicated working procedure

There are more to it, maybe you have better theories to the issue. Just like the Govt machinery, this department too stinks of corruption at all levels.

How can we take a step to improve the life of the Cop and make his work easier. Why not we digitalize lot more of his work, make it more transparent? Let make each of them more accountable for the torture ( latest) against innocent public.

Another suggestion is to make model police station which has all modern facilities like a top-notch BPO office. Good cafeteria, good gym, good recreation place, good library, 24/7 online connection facilicy, communication centre, organized working space, and finally put some good looking healthy female cops amidst them( sex ration 2:1).